From the depths of despair, you can still find happiness. Join me, my husband Juan, and our dog Ellie as we build our own.
From the depths of despair, you can still find happiness. Join me, my husband Juan, and our dog Ellie as we build our own.
Brett Niebergall's Blog:
The Basics:
I’m someone who chases meaning in places most people overlook — quiet rivers, forgotten trails, and uncomfortable truths. History humbles me. Nature grounds me. And the people I walk with — my dog, my husband — remind me every day what love looks like when it’s real. My past is complicated, and I don’t hide from it. The mistakes I made were devastating, but they cracked me open. They became the very reason I learned to live honestly, love deeply, and write like hell.
This blog was born out of wreckage. But what you’ll find here isn’t just survival — it’s what happens when you build a life from the ashes with your whole heart. I have compassion for anyone who stumbles. And I carry a quiet respect for those still waiting to fall.
What motivates me?
I’ve always loved the entrepreneurial process — the messy, creative, make-something-out-of-nothing kind of work. Right now, I’m involved in several projects that feel different from anything I’ve done before. They mark a departure, a shift, a quiet transformation. Details will come in time. When I’m not building something new, I’m usually mapping out our next wilderness trek. I find peace in the deep backcountry — far from cell service, closer to whatever’s real. For years, I skydived regularly. I miss it, and I’ll be back in the sky one day.
I also spend time volunteering at a local food pantry, and I’ve worked as a professional chef for organizations feeding some of the most vulnerable people in our community. Giving back is essential to me — not as penance, but as purpose. Since 2016, I’ve shared my life with my husband, Juan. He’s never left my side. I’m endlessly grateful for his love, his steadiness, and his willingness to chase wild adventures with me.
Who would benefit from this blog?
I write for anyone who’s ever been knocked flat and still found the strength to stand up. My readers come from all walks of life, but they share one thing in common: they’ve been through something — and they refused to let it define them. If you've faced loss, shame, consequence, or deep regret and still chose to keep going, you’ll feel at home here.
I explore what it means to build a meaningful life not in spite of hardship, but through it. For me, that means finding joy in small, sacred adventures — hiking remote trails, walking through redwood silence, watching the light change across the ocean. Rebuilding after destruction isn’t easy. But it’s possible.
I lost everything — and I mean everything. What I have now wasn’t handed to me. I fought for it. I worked for it. I shaped it with honesty, grit, and a deep belief that life can still be beautiful, even after ruin. If you're doing that kind of work too, you’re not alone.
CONNECT WITH BRETT
Dear Reader,
Do you have a story of resilience that you want to share? Has this blog impacted you in a positive way? Want to reconnect with me after years gone by? Have my writings triggered a negative reaction? Are you feeling down and need a pep talk?
I'd love to hear from you and I'm always available…
Sincerely,
Brett Niebergall
P.S. Any hateful correspondence or harassing content will be ignored. I am not afraid of abusers nor will I engage with them.
